Over the past ten years, I worked alongside many introverted researchers, engineers, and other professionals at top-tier organizations. I started to notice a trend: an impressive number of knowledgeable, kind, curious friends and colleagues struggled with their dating lives. And they all happened to be introverts.

I could relate. Despite feeling confident in many areas of my life, I spent years struggling with my confidence in dating and love.

Dating is not intuitive, and as an introvert and professional with a tight schedule, it often felt like I was spending time on dates I knew weren't going anywhere. Or I was adjusting my values to please my partners. Most of the advice I received from friends, articles, and videos didn't resonate and following it felt like an act. It just wasn't me.

I founded Quiet Confidence to create what I wish existed when I was dating; this blog draws on my experiences as a dating coach. I lean on my academic and consulting background to create systems to help you have more authentic and fun dating experiences.

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Ex-consultant turned dating coach for introverts. I use behavioural science to explain the many confusing aspects of dating. My favourite talent is tying any experience back to a Seinfeld episode.